All women deserved to be loved

Its rather often we find ourselves hating on each other .. Statistics show that a man will hate another man for various reasons but for him to hate a woman she would have to deny him or make him feel less than a man.

Often men are idiots when it comes to approaching a woman .. they start with the lines that were burnt up with the old scrolls of pimpology and tend to think it works. they get insulted then the woman is a bitch or whore or sketel. Now don't get me wrong there are women out there you may just like how she looks and tell her you look gorgeous and she automatically thinks you want her or that friend you give a call out of the blue and she does the same. A man however is inclined to be a man by looking pass what happened letting it go and point out the wrong she did so she knows not to again. It's best to keep a friend than lose one, common sense states life is hard due to us making it complicated..

Now my theory .. If you love a woman any woman being that she is a woman her name may be whatever. The fact she is name Keisha, Lisa, Mary, Ann Marie doesn't matter the underlying issue is that she is a woman.. If she deserves your love and respect even if you dont love another woman, wouldn't other women deserve your respect for being just that... a woman.

Its a simple concept..

Most women are in pain for some reason.. abuse being most common.. sexually, verbally and emotional some just out of circumstance and situation. It is often we overlook the signs and jump to conclusions when they act a certain way or talk a certain way.. the fact still remains if you simply listen you will hear what her heart is saying. She is still and will always be a woman .. even when called a bitch a whore a sketel. She is ultimately a woman..

Now for those women who have gone through the world with no problems and look down at the others like your better, there is your problem you look down on yourself. The simple fact of life remains we will all die making none of us better than the other..

This was a thought from the Real T

I am out ..now for a song from my girl Alicia Keys .. A womans worth

Women and Clothes " The Experience "

I often as a man wonder why women take so long to put on their clothes. It was puzzling, I think most men go through this. How many have taken the time to find out why? OK for a man to understand the concept he must first understand himself. Men go haywire over various things: cars, girls, money, video games, Top of the line PC and PC parts, etc. The statement boys will be boys came from the idea of when a man gets something new which he loves he literally turns into a boy. He will forget all his problems and if its something to be seen .. watch it.. heard .. listen to it .. played .. play it .. built .. make it .. etc. Men like new exciting things that relate to their way of life.

Women are built different, they tend to think about the entire world as an experience. Now I am using this method to simplify it for the men. Walking in the world everyday must feel different for a woman it must be new and exciting. Let me say not all women are this way some are too caught up in career and family matters so they tend to not see the world anymore but their personal situation as an experience. The mother will live through her kids .. buying everything they need to see them smile. The manager will try to complete her objectives before anyone else just to enhance her world. Now back to the woman you just found and you been going out for awhile. You go to pick her up she isn't ready, you wait and wait she comes out and asks how does this look. The worst thing you could do is say "its ok" ... Your job is to give her honest critique. So tell her "I don't like it" or "I love it". She wants to go into the world and experience it on a level where you are the envy of the town for having her.

So what you need to ensure your doing with your woman.. Enhance her shopping experience by being there ever so often. Keep alert to something she liked when you happened to pass that store. Often times you may find that a woman chooses wardrobe that she can mix and match to create new flavors. So do not think because you bought a few pieces of clothes they are high maintenance .. women are more understanding than your car.. friends .. family.. etc.

So just like how you love those new exciting experiences, enhance your woman's experience in the world by indulging in her need to look unlike the rest and watch her shine much to your delight..

This is the Real T

I am out.. but let me leave you with this mix and match cutie I fell in love with on youtube her name is "fuzkittie"