The Ideal Woman / Man

Many men have struggled with this concept what is the ideal woman, is she a Tyra Banks, Halle Berry, Serena Williams, the girl next door, the super model down the road. The ideas and concepts will go on forever, and many men waste so much time chasing after these categories of women. A few things to take into mind before running out and finding "The Worlds Top Model". Will she have time for you? Will she be willing to commit to a full time long lasting relationship? Is she even interested in the same things you are interested in? Does she like Ice Cream? Yeah I stuck that one in there for a simple reason, the little things can make and break a relationship. I watch blood sports, my wife doesn't like them much but she will watch them to see what I get out of it and end up seeing it. I will watch her lifetime movies to see the emotion factor it feeds her and experience that with her. How many people are willing to come out of their comfort zone for the one they claim to love.

The ideal person will always compromise to find a solution, if your not getting that, you need to think hard about what your getting.

The reality of dating .. Nothing is Real!!!!
The reality of lust .. Everything is in the Moment!!!
The reality of adoration .. Anything is Possible!!!
The reality of love ... Everything is real!!!
The reality of infatuation ... It feels like love!!!

Women tend to settle for what they have and investing into it to the point of can't live without and it ends up in disaster the exceptional few will not compromise and then end up lonely due to the many that compromise. The man for her or him is not necessarily the one for you. In my travels I have met many women and men I will give you a few examples of what I am trying to say. One girl I met had a big black shades on she dropped something and on her way down I saw over the tip of the shades bruises. I asked "What happened" after a few lies and waste of time dodges she admitted "I went out with a guy behind my boyfriends back and he found out, punched me in the eye and kicked me in my stomach" So I asked "Your still with him?" Of course she is ... Why? Cause women who end up with those types of men are usually what other women call weak with no confidence. The bad thing about that relationship it takes too long to end and most of the man's and woman's life is wasted. There are men that need women who will hit back to keep them in check, women with low confidence want strong men but honestly go find that boy scout who will adore you.. I kind of strayed from the topic, it all comes down to one thing.

Are you happy?

How much time do you spend with your man or woman?
Can you tell that person the darkest thing in your life and not worry?
Do you feel inferior?

If the answers are No... Not Much ... Not sure ... Yes.
It's time to start discussing these issues first then fixing it.
The person you chose somehow has one attribute about them you loved so now you need to dig deep to find the others. If you can't, evolution must take place. If your single you have time to observe.. Now as I always do I will leave you with a video that says alot. Part 2 of this topic will need to be done .. give me some time